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Devastating Critique of Private CS Collectors Issued; NPR Does Piece on F & F Member, Problems Faced by Laid off Divorced Dads
May 13, 2009
   

Lifetime Deadbeat Dads Campaign Update

Last year we conducted a protest campaign against Fox over its anti-father reality show Bad Dads, and Fox decided to drop the show. Lifetime TV decided to pick it up, and renamed the show Deadbeat Dads.

Watch Glenn Discuss Lifetime's Deadbeat Dads on TV Wednesday 10:30 AM PST/1:30 PM EST

Two weeks ago we launched a protest campaign against Lifetime's Deadbeat Dads.

Lifetime has received over 5,000 calls, letters, and faxes from our supporters, and our protest garnered press attention and the endorsements of over 200 mental health, family law and medical professionals, as well as other prominent citizens. We also drew support from the Center for Law and Social Policy (CLASP), which advocates for low income families.

Listen and Call in as Glenn Discusses Lifetime's Deadbeat Dads on the Radio 7 PM PST/10  PM EST

This campaign was an early, preemptive strike--if the show does air, it won't be for several months. We have made our point, and have decided to suspend the campaign against Deadbeat Dads. We will continue to monitor the situation, and if in the future we have good reason to believe that Lifetime will be going ahead with the show, we will renew our efforts. The campaign web page will remain up, as will all relevant information concerning the campaign.

Thanks to all of you who participated.

CLASP Issues Devastating Critique of Private Child Support Collectors' Abuses

The Center for Law and Social Policy is a national nonprofit that advocates on behalf of low-income people. CLASP Senior Staff Attorney Vicki Turetsky recently issued a devastating critique of private child support collection companies, such as Jim Durham's National Child Support Center, which is featured in Lifetime's Deadbeat Dads. According to the Report:

[P]rivate collection agencies often fail to deliver any genuine services. Instead, they strip income from low and moderate-income families that could have been spent on housing, childcare, clothing and school expenses, or saved for their children's education. They trap custodial parents in perpetual contracts.

They also exploit the child support indebtedness of low and moderate-income non-custodial parents through the use of predatory and abusive tactics that increase their debt levels and often destroy their credit histories and interfere with parenting relationships.

A number of private child support companies bring to the table a history of consumer complaints, bar association ethics complaints, and litigation filed against them.

CLASP has an extensive file of state consumer complaints and lawsuits filed over the past decade by mothers, fathers, grandparents, employers, states, and courts around the county against some of the largest private child support collection companies. CLASP continues to receive complaints on a regular basis from custodial and non-custodial parents, legal services programs, and state legislators about the predatory practices of this industry.

From these recent complaints, it does not appear to CLASP that these predatory practices have changed much from a decade ago, but rather that the problems are more widespread...

The complaints reflect an offensive and disturbing picture of deceptive advertising, misleading contracts, fee gouging, harassment and abuse, posing as the government, dunning grandparents, inflating and fabricating debts, undermining creditworthiness, and abusing legal process...Often, custodial parents have no idea that the company is operating a scam...

[C]ompanies use abusive and coercive collection practices against low and moderate-income non-custodial parents and their relatives. Like the custodial parents who sign up for services, the non-custodial parents targeted by the companies appear to be of modest means. They have low-level jobs and have limited educations. Often, they have a second family.

The companies interfere with the parents' employment relationships, make unauthorized foreclosure threats, harass mortgage companies, and repeatedly pull down credit records. They sometimes call the grandparents and threaten them with jail unless the grandparents pay up.

These companies often inflate child support debts by charging unauthorized interest on decades-old debts and extort payments that the companies know that parents do not owe. They undermine regular payments being made by the parents and sabotage these parents' often tenuous toe-hold in the mainstream economy.

Read more here and here.

 
 
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"When judges don't give relief to non-custodial parents who are unemployed, it puts fathers in legal jeopardy, says Ned Holstein.

"'Everybody is struggling, but someone who has a child-support order is going to be put in jail because they can't pay their debts,' he says. 'We're talking about ways to work out their mortgage and credit card debt, but non-custodial parents are the only ones whose debts will put them in jail.'"

NPR station WBUR in Boston did a nice piece this week on the problems faced by noncustodial fathers who lose their jobs in the recession but cannot get courts to modify their child support downward. Fathers & Families' member Jim Feeney and Fathers & Families founder Ned Holstein, M.D., M.S. are quoted and featured. Read more here.

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"[T]oo many young mothers are encouraged to believe that a child support check isn't so much a replacement for a husband:  It IS a husband to them.

"And too many young men, facing cultural attitudes that reduce effective male co-parenting as optional to children, are marginalized to the point where their family presence is of little to no consequence..."

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